we have an inside grown up who is much like a comforting person. she helps the littles and the youngers. if it is something that needs to be done on the outside, she will write to me or T that whoever (deedee esp.) needs to be talked to and let talk. Vicki also works with the littles when she's not upset or mad herself. having Anaya is a good thing. we are learning that Anaya has always been there.
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