Ugh and Jexa and sitting....I used to work for psychologists and also am acutely aware of the behind the scenes chatter...and it makes it harder, knowing that side of things...it's better to be naive, i think ...like perpetualysad is saying, ignorance is bliss...
B/c what T's say behind the scenes and to their colleagues doesn't even really get to what they REALLY feel or think about someone...I can gripe about people all day, but the people I gripe about are usually the most interesting, and sometimes the ones i feel most connected to and interested in..I don't know if T's are the same way...but it's that unknown...kinda like you mentioned Jexa the pain of not knowing if T is mad at you so you want to make her mad at you....it's those unknowns we can't control that drive us batty sometimes !