I can sympathize, sometimes I honestly don't know how I'm doing what I am. And there have been a few periods where I basically haven't functioned. I went through a phase like that a few years ago and I think the relationship is still reeling from the stress. (That's not the only factor, but it's one.)

I like clean linens, like your husband...but it seems like my wife and I both just let that go to seed at some point. I'm afraid to look too closely at the sheets right now...they might be getting pretty yucky!