Tishie, you are a good mother, and you have done everything you can. Your son has many emotional/mental instabilities. You have given him much, but when we give love from ourselves, it is NEVER for nothing, no matter what the apparent outcome. Please remember that. Your son has a lot of growning up to do. Eventually, he will realize the truth, and you will have a chance to forgive him. Look to that day, and live the rest in the knowledge that the universe is perfectly balanced. If it were not, all the various planets, moons and what have you would go crashing into one another. Please try to be at peace in the knowledge that you have done what you can. When something else presents itself that you can do to resolve this situation, do that, and resume your peace, allowing the situation to work itself out according to divine plan. billieJ