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Originally Posted by akshayag
Thanks marjan. as you were saying, i have set her free, i haven't contacted her in almost about 8 months now. for me thats a feat in itself. also i am happy for her, that she found a new man. i m just worried that this guy doesn't take advantage of her. she is a sweet girl, but also naive. i just want her happy.
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I don't want to be mean or harsh on you, but she's an adult and it's not your responsibility to be worry about her....why are you worry about her? She's the one who left you in pain.....just try to not think about her....I can teach you a method....here it is....whenever you think about her, do some praying or repeat some words over and over till you shift your thoughts away from her.....this needs discipline till you get used to not thinking about her.....
I'm so like you, I'm doing great in everything else in my life, but when it gets to romantic relationship, I'm sucks....well...I'm working on it and hope one day I nail it
take care and be hopeful
marjan