Sunflower, I sure can relate to what you are going through right now. I have depression, chronic fatigue, fibromyalgia and lots of pain, so I do not get done much either. I do not have any living childre though. My only son ended his life due to depression when he was 19. Try to hang in there, which I know is easier said than done. I feel for you and will try to come up with some suggestions to help you. What meds are you on? That can really decide hwo fatigued you are too, and there is meds to help with that which I could not live without! Take care of yourself!