I have had to help my husband understand that when I withdraw, it is not that I don't want him around; it's just that I need that space around me as a barrier. It helps when he asks if I need anything or tells me he loves me but he has learned that I don't want to be bothered by anyone or anything. It was hard for him not to take it personal but through some good conversations, he has been more accepting of my strange ways. I am grateful every day for him. Keep the faith.