Thank you ladies for your understanding and support. I really appriciate it!

Hubby has decided to sit her down and tell her everything that is bugging us and give her a chance to change it or we'll simply stop visiting. I know that if worst comes to worst and we end up not visiting them, it will be hard at time for hubby to see me so close to my family but yet his is so evil.

He specifically said that he will say sorry dad but mom's behavior needs to change. We've noticed that she openly favors the newphew over our daughter. She feeds him but refuses to offer to her and when she points that she wants she says she can't have it. She is never happy for us and is always negative about anything and everything in our lives. Seems like she'd be the happiest if we failed and that's not how a parent should be. Finally seems like she also hates my wife, may I have a reason why because from what I saw my wife has always tried to be nice to her and to get closler to her but on the other hand she seems to even treat her worse. Do you guys have a problem with us?

These things are bugging us and we'd like them to be changed otherwise we won't come over. We always come happy but leave your house feeling disseminated, frustrated and down and we'd rather not come than and be happy!

I'll keep you ladies updated. Hopefully this resolves the issue. I am hoping!