I was going to say the bug ppl just left - but I see now it's been 45 minutes.
Thankfully, a friend of mine is in spring break this week and wanted to do lunch - so i asked her to be here with me. we ran and had a quick bite to eat, and were back in time for the 1-2:15 "put your pet in the bathroom - we will come in - there are no exceptions" - and they didn't show. So we went to the park for an hour until she was suddenly worried about my cat.
We came back and they had just completed my buliding (of the three) and were glad to see us arrive. "You the one with the cat? we tried to catch it but... " They asked if i could contain him so they could come in.
When I went to get him from under the couch i got hissed at, and I bet they did too =) They take a dog around, so pets have to be contained.
THey sniffed around the entire place and left and my friend delayed her departure long enough for that. *whew*. I am still dissociated and having to retype every word in here.

As for T... she did not respond to my email last night. And the secondary T did not get in touch with me yesterday like she said she would. I was hoping to see her this week. I've been trying to since last Friday.
I am working on not falling into "See what happens?!? I TRY to be proactive and NOTHING happens. So why bother." I see regular T tomorrow morning.