I shared a lot of my intermost secrets with someone I did not know very well. We connected instantly and it was wonderful having a new friend who seemed like someone I had known my whole life. Sadly, she betrayed my trust and told my husband everything I had shared in confidence. Beyond that, she played on his anger towards me and vulernabilities by keeping in constant contact thru phone calls and email. Wanting to see how he was that day, if he needed anything, his thoughts, his feelings, and what our future together would hold. Appearing to be a supportive and caring friend in his time of need, all the while planting more seeds of uncertainty and deciet which eventually surfaced as lies to get closer to him. Ironically she is married, but her husband is bi-curious. (from what she tells everyone) He is interested in the male genitalia as I understand it. Who knows.... I just want her to leave us alone, she is an awful person with motives and no she never paid me the $308 she owes. She will not be ignored and I am worried that this is not the last of the wicked witch. What is the best approach in dealing with someone so scarey?