I had had enough and wrote him an email (you can email prisoners now weird hey) telling him all the things I had done for him as a child while he was growing up.

How his father did nothing.

He phoned me up to say he now remembers and is so so sorry for being nasty to me, we had a long talk on the phone and it was all good.

So at last (for a while till he forgets again) things are looking up and I will be going to see him on Saturday the 2nd I think it is any ways a week this Saturday ! I cant wait ! I am really excited about it. We leave on Monday and should arrive at my mums on the Tuesday.

Thank you all for your advice and help I really needed it.