I can feel your pain in this post. I have many of the same thoughts. I find life stressful with two children; I can't imagine having five.

I am sure that your husband is tired. This disorder takes so much out of everyone. It is important that you are in therapy. Have you considered couple's therapy? Also, your husband might consider a therapist that he can talk to about how he is feeling.

In my family, I am in therapy, we are in couple's therapy, mu husband is in therapy and my oldest son is in therapy.

I think it helps, although it doesn't solve everything.

I understand the meds thing too. I have been dealing with this my whole life, but only got diagnosed about a year ago. I have been on so many meds already in that year that I can hardly keep track. I have to assume something will work.

Don't give up. We, on this board, are right there with you.