Googley, I think everyone here has those same feelings. I wont say you are worth caring about or any of that blah blah stuff, cos I know from my own experience that I had to test T and test T and test until little by little I built up enought info to refer back to find the incidences where she has proven she cares, by actions more than words. It takes time and isnt a one off thing, its the relationship that will eventually be where the reasurance is to be found.