I think that's messed up, let me guess... he led you to believe he did love you till he admitted that he didn't. That's like lieing. I don't know. I think you could be with somebody who would love you completely. Why waste your time on somebody who doesn't. As far as making him love you, or him "growing" into love.... personally I believe it's fake. I hope the best for you, don't put up with anything unsatisfactory just because your afraid of the emotional discomfort. Remember, as time passes, it'll get easier.