I think what you are saying completely makes sense. But I can understand how this situation would definitely make you feel insecure. Does your boyfriend have a job? Does he pay support for his first child? How far along is your pregnancy? Has he done anything "responsible" to begin to prepare for this new baby? I guess those are the things I would look at and see what is going on. If he's done these things above, I'd say you are probably just scared (I completely understand that feeling!), if he hasn't your fear may be grounded in reality. Luckily though, you have your pregnant time to help him figure out how to be a grown up, so maybe things will work out well for you guys?
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