I'm not surprised you are stressed! Sounds like way too much has happened lately, I'm sorry to hear that. I have times like that too...where all the rotten things happen one after another. UGH!
Now, not letting you cut your own steak is ridiculous. I don't get angry easily, but if people were trying to pull something like that with me I'd be pitching a fit!
I do hope you will see a doctor, if you can't get in with a psychiatrist, at least try to get in with a regular doctor to start with. He/she might be able to at least get you started on some type of medicine, even if it's just an anti-anxiety or something it might at least help take the edge off while you wait to get in with a psychiatrist.
Take care of yourself!
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From the movie The Hours: "If I were thinking clearly, Leonard, I would tell you that I wrestle alone in the dark, in the deep dark, and that only I can know. Only I can understand my condition. You live with the threat, you tell me you live with the threat of my extinction. Leonard, I live with it too."