Dear DfendrOfEmilysHeart,
The reality is that you won’t know how they will react until their knowledge of this portion of your past becomes a reality. I think, though, the important thing in the present and in the afar-off present, should you decide to tell them, is how you do/will see yourself. Regardless of their reaction, finding inner kindness is the most important thing.
I hope you are able to make peace with your “wondering.”
Peace
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