I also have dropped people from my life usually when I'm manic and I think hey I just wanna go! have fun do what ever but I regret the things I have done and said the blame I have put on people. My husband now just won't let me go when I get like that. He always lets me know hes there when I'm done with my crap. I don't know where your g/f's head is at but I used to blame the other people for my "crazy" and even in my own head think maybe it wasn't me at all, maybe I just picked the wrong people...now I own up to what I do to my husband and we just try to work things out.just let her know your not done with loving her and hopfully she is out of the state she was in and you guys can work things out.,