My mum (his nan) went to see him and his brother (my oldest child) on Thurs, mum told me today that he is very positive about us meeting next Saturday and really really looking forward to it so I am happy.

We leave here (the north of Scotland) for London on Monday afternoon and should arrive Tuesday morning, we are driving with four children two adults and a dog wish us luck ! lol.

Will spend a few days with my mum then see Christian on Saturday which will be grand ....

I will let you all know how we got on.

I am hoping eventually to get him to go back to seeing a shrink as he saw one from age 7 to 14 then long story wont bore you but he didnt go anymore.

He has lots of mental health issues which really need to be addressed and possibly medicated.