we have actually gone to a couples councelor, but it just started getting worse. Since we stopped going, its gotten a little better, but now its progressively getting worse again. I think hes just got this self destructive behavior going on and personally, I think if I told him that he would be glad. Because then the doctor could get me to stop 'forcing' him to do things. Im just going out of my mind trying to figure out what to do.

~Is it ever really THAT bad??