I'm sorry to here of your family's loss. I'm afraid the frog of little brain has no wise wisdom to share. When my mother passed last year there were of times of pain. Luckily she lived a long and fulfilling life. And not many tears.
When a close family member dies those who are naturally strong help weak deal with the healing.
I'm glad you are there to help your family. It's not easy being the only one in the family who is there for support.





Kebs