Have to say I use the word resonate a lot when I’m talking to people who are also in therapy (like on forums ) but don't use it with anyone else. I would tend to say instead ‘that makes a lot of sense to me’.

To be honest psychspeak drives me crazy - I particularly hate it when people say things like ‘thank you for sharing that with me’ and ‘I want to explore something with you’ - it sounds so contrived and makes me experience the person as fake. For that reason I’m being quite careful not to adopt psychspeak into my own language - it would be very easy to tell someone that they are crossing my boundaries for instance but my natural authentic way of saying that would be ‘get out of my face!’ (or more politely ‘you’re making me feel uncomfortable’.)

Having said that, sometimes psychspeak seems like the simplest and clearest way to explain something, and anyway I probably only have a thing against it because of the connotations of conformity it has for me, a big issue for me. So no criticisms intended of anyone