((((((((((((((((((leacon)))))))))))))))))))))). I'm so sorry about your father, and offer you my admiration for fighting the fatigue that such things can cause to be a comfort to your Mom. I recall when my own Mom died in 2002 and the horrible bus trip over 400 miles to meet with Dad and pick up her things in the nursing home. Loss of a parent can be one of the strangest, sadest and most conflictual and numbing of experiences, even when faith in a "better place" is strong. Love to You and Your Mom. And know that time heals - it truly does. billieJ