Faith - that can be dangerous for sure. The goal is to be able to have at least one strong alter be able to manage the troubled alters until the host can take over that job. Elaine had to do that for us many times for several years until I was able to do it myself. The troubled alters need to be raised and taught by the older alters. It really is a matter of re-parenting ourselves and our parts. Hard work. But try to make sure the host has a person driving who can stay in charge at all times behind the wheel. That is for the safety of the whole.