yokus ((((Huggs)))) your healing of the abuse is on no one's time clock but your own. it is normal to take time to process through past abuse. memories are so shameful to us that work through them is painful. you'll protect yourself by not remembering everything at once, but at a time when you are ready to remember. try not to think that "you should be over this by now" and instead think "you ARE where you are supposed to be." take care (((Huggs)))

<font color=purple> Man can will nothing unless he has first understood that he must count no one but himself; that he is alone, abandoned on earth in the midst of his infinite responsibilities, without help, with no other aim than the one he sets himself, with no other destiny than the one he forges for himself on this earth. Jean-Paul Sartre </font color=purple>