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Originally Posted by youOme
My boyfriend crushes on my sister, he does the same thing when she comes around, gets all weird and crap. It really bothered me in the beginning, but it doesn't as much now. As long as he don't act out on it, ya know. My sister is attractive, alot of men respond to her. I kinda've accepted that....my boyfriend is a man, and human...so I let it go.
It's hard not to be jealous...I know, I get jealous easily. But don't let it consume your life, your thoughts. I've basically told myself that if he plays me, the truth will eventually come out and I'llput a wrath on his *** he ain't never had before....meaning, I'll take everything and leave his ***.
Personally, I'd rather not obsess about it anymore, I got other **** to worry about.
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With all due respect, being married is worlds different than just being boyfriend/girlfriend. When you marry you are entering into a covenant with that other person and forsaking all others before God and family.
I see red flags all over the place. Your husband has no boundries and clearly the neighbor doesnt either. I would let her no with no hesitation that she is to not be in your home when you are not there. I would say this in front of her husband as well.
I would also let your husband know how this makes you feel. He is well on his way to an EA and or PA. Dont hold back how you feel. You have a right to feel jealous and threatened.