Spacecase,
Youd be surprise of what you capable of doing. My sister is the same way as yours. She does everything for me. Just take baby steps of faith...M&M (minute by minute) I think its the fear of the unknown thats even scarier than the unknown.
When you pass through the waters, I will be with you; And through the rivers, they shall not overflow you. When you walk through the fire, you shall not be burned, Nor shall the flame scorch you...Isaiah