Happened to us as well. I'm the guy and my wife would probably post the same message that you did.

People come into your life for a reason, and they exit your life for a reason. I know there is far more to life than what we in our bodies are doing day to day. If you really are spiritual, you may find the ability to stretch your imagination to think that something, somehow helped out your situation by causing whatever pain you had to endure to get there. Enjoy it and learn from it.