Ok, I have parents that are older folk. I am blessed to have them still. I don't understand why they allow/ or accept my brother leaving for months and I am left always managing their care. I said once, I'm taking a holiday and they just laughed at me. Sometimes I find the care aspect of older parent too hard. Talking with people, some people are better at caring for people than others. I just don't get why it's ok if he leaves me in charge of all this so much. Its overwhelming and I dread it. Just call me Cinderella....