an added note...he has a thing where he won't drive more than a certain speed limit on the freeway and must drive in one particular lane behind big trucks. he is very stubborn about it or he would rather not drive the freeway at all. it's like he doesn't even want to try to break from this zone that he gets in. he gets in his little world and i don't think even picks up on cues as to my needs/wants. how do i get him to understand where i'm coming from when every time i try to bring it up he changes the subject. when he told me he had ocd it was like he forgot he told me and then when i brought it up he wouldn't talk about it.