Im at alot of different sites well recently one that i hang on a daily basis, i was having some issues in my life and this girl helped me and shes been having alot of issues. So far so good cept she emailed me the other day and told me she really likes me and would like to get to know me more.

I was shocked cause shes been a real helper to me in my life. I had no idea this was coming, now the problem im married and very unhappy. Which she knows this (the helper girl). I was no out looking for anything but some help and over the last 3 months her and I and others been talking like normal you know nothing unusal. Then this happens.

Im really scared cause sad part is to be honest while im scared im also relieved .. i feel like such a bad person cause now i feel like ive cheated on my wife. I dunno what to do ive never done this before and i really like this girl which she has been nothing but supportive to me and my wife but in this email she told me i need to end it cause it isnt going to work out. While shes prob right ive never seen myself ending up in these shoes and always been one against any kind of actions like ive done .. all i was doing was getting help and things turned into this.

I just dont know what to do .. this girl is really interested and gave me her number and said her and i need to talk .. .. its been over 3 months of close talking i just never thought this would happen let alone find myself thinking about her. I feel so bad. ehghh i hate this stress. Anyone got any ideas??