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Originally Posted by perpetuallysad
Well, it turned out far worse than I could ever have possibly imagined. She wrote the most mean, hurtful, hateful email back that she could come up with. She said that I have made up everything about my mom abusing me because I want everyone to feel sorry for me and to have an excuse for being a loser as an adult. She said that my shrink was my problem and I lie about everything that really happened in my life.
Oh, god it ****ing hurts so bad I can barely breathe.
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I'm so so very sorry.
that's why I have not nor will I probably ever confront any of my family(been told to be emotionally prepared to handle any reactions , I don't think I would handle invalidation well at all)-- I prefer the emotionally distant place-- even when we are at gatherings. maybe some would say Im avoiding- but I see it as self-protection.
I can't help but wonder if distancing yourself would be of some help to you??(at least if even for a while) I wish I had the 100 percent surfire answer for you perpetuallysad.
I'm sorry you are hurting so much.
please be kind to you-- you are very deserving of kindness and understanding...... please give yourself that.
thinking of you
fins