we were and always have been in a committed monogamous relationship. I don't think I have enough info to give me a gut feeling. It's weird because usually he's very honest with me. He said he's not interested in someone who is interested in cars like he is. But why would he go to the site? we did have a fight about a month ago but made up the same day. he was a little cool towards me the next few days..

I am nervous to bring it up to him because I have self esteem issues which make me seem really insecure when I am stressed. a few days ago I kept asking him if he "Really" wanted to be with me..he got annoyed and pulled away. the next day we were talking about honesty and caring about someone in a relationship. that's when he told me about the car girl and the dating site. he said he was not interested in her. and that someone else sent him something too but he didn't even respond.

I wonder if maybe he was trying to make me realize that he cares about me. by telling me about the car girl. I also wonder if I need to back off a little from seeing him so much. Maybe I need to just cool off and work on my ow issues. but I still wonder about why he even went on the site...