Well, one less might not seem like a problem, except I only have one. She has not been answering my calls or emails for about 5 weeks now. I don't pester her, I think I've called twice and emailed twice, and left a note on her front door one day when I was in her neighbourhood. I don't make a lot of demands, I just ask how things are going and say it would be nice to hear from her. When we do get together she seems to enjoy our conversations.
She did this a few months ago and when she finally did pop up again I didn't ask why she disappeared I just said it was good to see her and left it at that. I am sure she is not sick since someone who knows both of us mentioned seeing her at a party a couple of weeks ago and she was having a great time.
I know people get busy and lose track of each other, and I know she has a lot of other friends, so maybe it is not so noticeable to her.
Anyhow, I don't know what I have done to offend her. I guess if she does call me I'm gong to have to ask this time what is up.
I am always being encouraged to develop more of a support network and this feels like a backward step.
Well anyhow I guess I'm just babbling here. Hopefully not whining. Life just feels a bit lonelier than usual right now.