HELLO, zellbeelee. There is no easy answer. You son is not old enough to be deciding what visitation he will honor. I wonder if you ex has something to do with this?

Of course, if you tell your son he is coming whether he likes it or not, he will not be very happy. There are a lot of things people have to do even if they do not like doing it. I think your husband needs to know.

My thought is you and your son should be visiting for Easter.