Thanks, you guys

notme - I SO get what you mean about talking about cutting back bringing up some old abandonment fears. That started coming up for me this afternoon, and I left T a message about it. I need to know he'll be there as long as I need him.

jexa - you're right about not changing anything right now. I'm just going to sit in this middle place for as long as I need to.

griffin - thanks for sharing how your appointment schedule has changed over time. That was really reassuring to me.