The memoirs that we share are those of alters that have learned that it was safer then the time that they where alpha in the body. These memoirs can be both good or bad depending on the things that was happening to the body. For us it was the awarness of safety that allowed us to share with each other. Now with those with in we have a common memior of daily activites when we be shareing the body. But when an out sider made those in the body feel threaten the first comping mechanisim is a form of aminsa. So that the reast do not have to face them memoir of more abuse. But when those with in feel that the threate of more abuse is over then that memoir is shared sometimes by some one asking us about it or seeing the person that cause us to be scared. We may not recall every thing but the need to vomite is still enough warning to stay away from those that are connected to those feeling.
So when one memior is awaken there can be times like now that we are overwhelmed by the awaking of multiple memiors of past abuse. This is both good and bad because of the fact that we can now choice how we react more easily but the pain of remembering is not always so nice. 
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Sometimes the only way to find freedom is to fight for it, even unto death! Because no form of abuse transcends pass it! To live free and with hope is still the greatest gift of life!- anderson .gif "Boy Angel")
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