I'm sorry that she is not as open to getting help as you hoped she would be, but I'm so glad that you are able to be there for her, and I hope that she will be ready to work things out soon, and that she will come to you when she is ready. Take care and I will continue to keep you and your daughter in my thoughts & prayers.
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From the movie The Hours: "If I were thinking clearly, Leonard, I would tell you that I wrestle alone in the dark, in the deep dark, and that only I can know. Only I can understand my condition. You live with the threat, you tell me you live with the threat of my extinction. Leonard, I live with it too."