Jan, men who are like that are LOSERS and he approached you because of his own twisted thoughts and desires, not because of what you wore. He would still have 'bothered' you if you had been wearing a spacesuit...lol. it's good that you managed to work out what's been going on in your mind, though... and now you can just tell yourself that "If I just hadn't lost that weight and been wearing that outfit that man wouldn't have bothered me." just isn't true! (but I can see just how easily it's believed ...)

PS I hope that you managed to eat cookie dough before the cookies!

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