I believe it. I have noticed that whenever I can't be with the one I "love" and I finally do...it never lives up to my imagination or how I thought it would. Also, things that are that insanely passionate usually die out pretty quickly. I have much more deep appreciation knowing that, with my current bf, every time I have had doubts or wanted to walk out and leave, he wouldn't let me. So, while at first, I might have "loved" someone else, it's grown much more than that. If you're willing to give someone a chance, it might be better than going for that passionate-libido driven lust.