Lynn that has to feel awful still in the same house ...sorry to hear that..my husband is at least I guess in a different house with her 7 days a week for the last year and a half but out of our house 4 years ..I wish my love for him was dead ...we haven't shared any romance as you put in the biblical sense since a few months before he met her when neither of us had met anyone but were seperated none the less.

I feel for you so much ....I would have to think your husbands "other"should never want him either just being human I'd always wonder if he were still with you since he still lives with you and the kids ...just as I wouldn't want to be my husbands GF even though she has him 24/7 he still has a wife doesn't she ever wonder why he doesn't divorce me since we have been apart so long ...must be even slightly once in awhile in her head wondering if he still has feelings for me or he doesn't care enough for her to divorce me for her ???

Just food for thought ....Just curious Lynn even though your feelings are gone for him ever have a secret fantasy of stealing your husband back so to speak have him madly in love with you again so you could hurt him like he has you...

I know am I "twisted "or normal kind of like when I said I think sometimes as bad as it sounded think it would have been so much easier if he died instead of hurting still day in and day out