January (((((hugs))))) and kind thoughts for you.
My husband is having an angry reaction to our sons loss (February)
and he has been trying to get rid of our sons things.I prayed
about it and then did some giving (12 beautiful suits) in a dignified
way.They went to some refugees from Eritrea. Now by prayer(Im certain) he
is just concentrating on our sons car.(which is ok )

It's hard isn't it. Especially when you miss them so much.
I hope you manage some honorable solutions. I also hope
your health won't be affected too long,but I understand that.
(Ive been getting asthma re my loss)

Warm and kind thoughts always...Jjulia