Hi Jen,

I read your post very carefully, and it's not all bad news. The relationship with your Mum is a real high point. I think we need to focus on the plus points when they do come, and that was a really good one for you.

I used to do a lot of wishing and hoping about relationships and IMHO that never really works for us. Gosh, I've spent whole years in that mode - to no avail! There are quite a few of us here in that position I think.

Your original post was about the anxiety as well as about your sister. I hope that 'rotten old anxiety' eases down soon, now that you have made the big move. For a lot of us here at PC, the anxiety is pretty much the main issue - it certainly has been for me.

Peaceful thoughts, M

PS - I really like your new atavar. Another brilliant graphic!