Hi all. Im dredging up this old thread. I have spoken with a number of people who know how the school would handle this kind of thing, I did it mostly anonymously for the child. One very close friend guessed the child and told me that this isnt the first incident with this child. Another older child in the school had done something weird- she or another 7th grade boy had offered her and another kindergarten girl had offered candy to kiss them on the lips. The parents of the other little girl (who is a friend but I havent had a chance to ask her about the incident yet, but I will) got a lawyer and has begun legal action against the girl and the boy.

I was told that cps was notified of the incident that I reported because the teacher is mandated to do so. I believe that this was done, especially in light of the legal action taken by another family where this child was involved as well. She does seem to be some sort of target. I think I did probaby all I could, but I am still going to ask more questions of (only) friends that might know moree about the situation and school in terms of reporting incidnets like this.

There was only 1 other incident that anyone knows of that was reported and that was before we lived here (about 7 yrs ago) and it turns out that it was someone who spitefully did this to get back at the family. I find it hard to believe but I do know the family involved and got the story from the mother who is a friend. Everyone says this was a spiteful thing done by this other woman. How awful.

So...this is where it stands now. I am satisfied 99%.