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Old Mar 31, 2010, 11:22 AM
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Soprano – since you asked if you should play hard to get, I’ll give you my opinion. I make no judgments of you or this woman we’re all human and make mistakes.

I don’t know any of you, but based upon my life experience, I don’t think there’s anything you can do to make her act. Right now, as I said, she’s in the driver’s seat. If you do not continue to give her what she wants, she’ll find someone else. The way I see it you only have two options. 1) You accept this relationship as it is and expect no more than she’s willing to give you. The relationship is unhealthy and unbalanced in many ways. 2) You can move on.

Do you continue to make excuses for her behavior? Very often we give people credit for having virtues we wished they had rather than what they do have.
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