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Originally Posted by perpetuallysad
I think you are kind to put up with her cheating, but you aren't required. Even though she has an illness, it doesn't mean you have to accept being hurt like that. If its something that's in the past and you all are working forward, then good for you. Loving her is a good thing, but take care of yourself too.
And its not wrong to want to know, though make sure you are prepared to accept the information she gives you.
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Morning , thanks for coming back for the message you sent to me i truly appreciate it .Is it wrong of me to want to know the grusome details ---is it something i should chweck into when i start the counselling next week,,,,The thing that bothers me the most is the deny deny deny deny attitude she has knowing that all i want is the information and what she did...an example is aftrreturning from Maui for 2 weeeks which was great for us ...she came home and looked up an old affair she had with a previous marriage which split them up for a period of time ... i found the name number on an old bill and she denied it over over although she called it contiueous for 6 days in a row....that bothers me more than meeting a guy like she did last month and blowing him in his or her car that i bought for her....