I really like your analogy about the 3 yr old. That really rings true for me too. I think your T will stay there for you. She was probably happy you've found a friend, someone else to rely on. That's such a good thing. A real true friend, someone you can chat with, or have deep conversations, you can do things together...all the things you really cannot do with your T. I think its just wonderful. Maybe one day I'll have a friend again.