Thanks for your advice, Shadow and Kimmy. I will try being more assertive in the future... just in that situation there wasn't much I could do and I think he knew i didn't like it . I'm not sure about the self-defence classes, I checked up about them a fewyears back but I decided against them, can't remember why now, but i think that at university i might be able to manage it, i think they do free classes there... plus it would help my depression and make me get out. but telling the person that what they are doing is uncomfortable to me is a good start, I think.