I understand the 'logic' behind you thinking this as I frequently perform the same 'acrobatic thinking' myself. I'm rarely right when I think this though, if that helps?

I also wanted to say that I frequently read your posts but rarely respond. I don't do this to mess with your head by jacking up your 'read numbers' but not your 'post numbers' (honest! ) I guess I never feel like I have anything of value to add, especially as you have such great friends here who always give you such great support/advice. The reason I follow your posts is because I admire what you have achieved wading through the sludge of depression and a less-than-ideal childhood eg finishing your degree, branching out on your own etc. And also I find your writing style so honest, refreshing and often insightful. You certainly aren't hard to connect with online! I enjoy reading about your life, even though I don't know you, because it usually resonates with me. I hope you don't mind.

*Willow*