My new friend will not call me but if I call her she talks for hours on end.
We talked all afternoon yesterday.
I know many things about her life that are personal happenings.
Like her date rape at 14 years of age and how it had effected her life as a teenager.

She told me yesterday that she wants to be friends with every one and not just have one or two strong friends.

I told her quess what it is too late we are getting to be close friends.

We are both born same year, graduated same year.

I told her yesterday how my husband brought corn on the cob home as a suprise gift from a farmer market on his way home from an out of town trip two nights.

And how I was not thrilled about it and he told me if I did not want to clean and cook it to just throw it away.

I told her how I do not like to clean corn and she said I tell my husband if he brings home corn he better clean it or I do not cook it.
She hates to clean corn also.

Her whole family went to an ammusement park to ride the rides yesterday and she hates to ride the rides and stayed home.
I do not go to ammusement parks either do not ride the rides etc.

We talked about a movie we both liked.

She has sisters about my sisters ages and I know that sisters name Joy is similiar to my sisters name Julie some times called just Jul .

And her name is also similiar to mine and all three women in my family have similiar J names and I know so far that two of her family have J names but an not sure yet what third sisters name is.

I will ask her soon and be very suprised if it is not similiar to Jane my other sisters name.

She met another women before she got to know me and I got to know this women and we do not click in personality's.

The women is bossy and controlling and even though we got together as familys a few times we did not enjoy each others company.

So we are not friends we speak a few words in passing when we see each other but not easy conversation.
I do not like the women much but I am freindly with her when I see her.
This new friend asked me yesterday if I knew why it seems now that she is becoming my friend this other person does not want any thing to do with her.

I told her if she wants freind ship with that freind she does not have to act like she is my freind also.
So that other women won't cut her off.
I do not want to come between people.
No one has to make a choice between me or another person . it sounds like the other women is forcing her to make that choice between her or me.
She said no thats not what she wants she just wants to be freinds with every one.

I do not think a person can be good freinds with every one they have constant contact with.

I know I use to want the same thing be friendly with every one be every ones good freind .

Be freinds with all the neighbors and with all my family and others and I know now it is not possible.

That has proven hurtfull over and over again.

Some old freinds can be kept at a long distant place for most of your life you can call them once a year and talk for hours like it was just yesterday you see them but to be close with many I think is very rare.

Any one that is has a very special thing going on.
M8G